So are asexuality and aromanticism (is that the noun?) less about "I don't find sex/romance appealing" and more about "I don't find sex/romance appealing as an option for me personally, but it's appealing when it presents as a mutually satisfying option for others"?
And it's partly a case of watching a show with your focus on the character's feelings and not on your own.
That's a really good illustrative point. I love A LOT of characters who make choices that I wouldn't make, but the fact that I wouldn't choose to act that way myself has no effect whatsoever on my appreciation of their choices in the context of their characters and my empathy for them.
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Date: 2012-11-30 04:46 pm (UTC)And it's partly a case of watching a show with your focus on the character's feelings and not on your own.
That's a really good illustrative point. I love A LOT of characters who make choices that I wouldn't make, but the fact that I wouldn't choose to act that way myself has no effect whatsoever on my appreciation of their choices in the context of their characters and my empathy for them.
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